Our daily lives

[Zipfile.exe]

This thread is open to opinions or facts found about our daily living or even some sound advice is just as helpful..friendships is an open gate to learn these ( i know i need it)things..advice works in all ways but dont take just one persons word for it..because God created our minds different and what worked for one dont mean it will work for another..some ones failure doesnt mean alls failure..Understanding is the key to living a good honest life..And not being afraid to humble(letting your pride go) yourself in the presents of others..And dont take what you read as my opinion..it isnt.. psychology is what i want to do and i find these as facts..that psychologist have study to get where we are today for decades...And for what? Only to help give us understanding.. And understanding is what can help us in all those daily problems Love,money,careers,children...ect.. ITS NOT a problem solver but it is a guid to help us solve our own problems ...


Im starting this thread more on a serius note. the thread is dedicated to psychology i know boring huh well for those who dont know psycholy is what makes us understand our daily livin.. and understanding our daily living involves a lil psychology. And the more we know about it the more we can help ourselves deal with our daily problems. Rather it be love, work, family, money, or simply driving down the road..We need it. Some people are scared of the word mainly because when they seek it' they find out they were allways the one who was wrong. And the hardest thing for most people in this world is admiting when they are wrong. And when finding out they were wrong instead of letting the right take its course and the problem be fixed they clam up and just refuse to even try. Admiting when you are wrong isnt an easy task, And no one likes to do it..But it is more easyier to understand it so trying to understand where you were wrong makes it simple to fix..Before its to late..Some people will instead of fixing the problem and not trying to understand would much rather take chances.,instead of admiting they were wrong and fixing it.And in the end they dont have nothing left because the problem was never fixed..And the task that is at place will never be.Some even find out they were wrong and then admit it and even so much as understand itbu, but they dont fix it and still face the same outcome as some who didnt understand it or couldnt admit they were wrong.. All for what because the person couldnt admit when they were wrong and wouldnt understand it nor would they try and understand it..so to keep from ever getting to this point why not start before it ever happens and understand why people do this...For one some one who understands they are wrong in the task and is able to admit it and even knows how to fix it..why does this person keep goin on with the problem..(answere)....This person may be overwhelmed in self pride..pride is mistaken by 99.9% of the worlds population as being a GOOD thing..Well pride can be good only in few things..Pride really isnt a good thing at all (read definition on pride) When a man is taking pride in his work he is really saying "my work is great i did well" My work iss better than anyone else"....Thats harmless pride and allso why people think they can take pride to heart..."i take pride in my child she is the most smartest child in her school" Again harmless pride That is mixed with possiable fact..Ofcourse the child may be the smartest in the school and some one is just being proud of this child (harmless pride) Now lets look at some other situations..When some one is taking on a task and when they fail to complete the task because of their neglagence but is unable to admit it because 1) they dont want to feel the outcome of knowing they failed...2)they dont want to take responcibilitys for thier failer...this is failer to admit they are wrong..Why?? Because their pride is in the way they dont want to feel low or be seen by others as a failure..Even though they are the reason for the failing...In relationships Pride comes in all the time ...on both sides When one or the other is the cause of the relationships problems they usaly dont want to admit it..Why??? back to not wanting that feeling of failure..some even know they are the cause of it but will not let the pride go..no one wants to be know as the one who caused it to go bad..So they let their pride over take thier lives.....Some know they are wrong and can admit they are the cause of it but let it keep goin untill it falls apart..some dont relise it but cant admit they dont know that they are the cause Why// because their pride wont let them even try to understand..so in fatal divorses its clasic to see in the case evidence of one or the others neglagence and still they cant admit they were wrong...thats understanding but not excepting it and fixing it..(not opinion but fact) if there was less pride in the couple if both would let all pride go and admit when they are wrong and fix the problem there would be less broken homes in america today..

[Zipfile.exe]

exscuse the spelling its hard on few hours sleep
lots on the dome.....

<font color="#CC6633" size="1">[ September 12, 2002 04:18 AM: Message edited by: Zipfile.exe ]</font>

[demon chloe]

no one ever cares about spelling Mr Zip, even me...the rotten teacher....

A lot of what you said...had some real value to me.

you said...For one some one who understands they are wrong in the task and is able to admit it and even knows how to fix it..why does this person keep goin on with the problem

DING DING DING!!!! you just showed every single one of us... HUMAN NATURE. Sometimes we keep going on with things because we arent ready to face it yet. Maybe we aren't ready to fix it. "Fixing" "doing the right thing" can be hard but it's one of those emotional growth things that evolve so differently for everyone. And one last t hing. Even though fixing things feels so good..once its over and done. IT SUCKS... cuz its hard, and stressful, and draining... ect...(should I go on)?


Anyway... this is a good topic *L can't wait to come home and post.... and read more....tonite....

POST PEOPLE POST!!!!!!!


K...its 5:45 AM...and I gotta get my ass to work... who knew teachers worked this freakin ass hard....

[img]graemlins/kiss.gif[/img] to the moderator of this fine board

*hands .EXE a lollipop [img]smile.gif[/img] ZIp, looks like you did exactly what I do sometimes... let the issues in your mind.....fly out your fingers here [img]smile.gif[/img] .... kinda nice..

[Tee Ehn]

chloeeeeeeeee........::::runz and loves on ya even at 545am your still purdy *w*.......*smooches you......

bamma..........you gotta lotta smarts hidden down deep inside you.....im listening go ahead type yer lil heart out *hugs

[Blazey]

Ahhhh..I love it..insight to the heart and mind.. [img]smile.gif[/img] ..whats the old saying about pride and downfalls..yes..one of my favorites.. [img]biggrin.gif[/img]

"Some know they are wrong and can admit they are the cause of it but let it keep goin untill it falls apart..some dont relise it but cant admit they dont know that they are the cause Why// because their pride wont let them even try to understand..so in fatal divorses its clasic to see in the case evidence of one or the others neglagence and still they cant admit they were wrong...thats understanding but not excepting it and fixing it..(not opinion but fact)<font color=blue> if there was less pride in the couple if both would let all pride go and admit when they are wrong and fix the problem there would be less broken homes in america today.. "</font>

Good point..ppl should talk and hear both sides..work togather for a solution..understand each other..and if they dont..be willing to bend and sway..yes..Bama..this is good stuff..way to go.. [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]

[Zipfile.exe]

An addition to my long post...Reaction that people who have the problem of admiting of their wrongness..And who have trouble letting their pride go..And now understanding some of the things they do when they themselves do or dont understand..

Alot of people who are in the wrong and who understand they are..Will do several things to keep from admitting they are ...They just cant let the pride go..One thing they like to do is try and turn the problem on someone else..Make it seem that it is their fault...Or blaiming reasons that have nothing to do with the task..Lota people use the way of going when dealing with love...they will use love as a crutch to try and turn the task on thier spouse or loved one..."if you loved me you wouldnt do this to me" Even thogh they are the ones who are creating the problem...And know they are ....another example is daily life styles...people who live different life styles that are not nessarly good one such as drug addiction alcohol addiction and many other addictions...tend not to say to people " i only drink my self stupid because i like it" or i use drugs and kill my life because i like it" No people tend to blaim this problem on other things ""MY wife left me for another man" or " they laid me off at work" these are people who cant deal with the fact that they are the ones who failed and put themselves in their spot..And so what do they do Blaim other things for their problems...And are quik to try and turn their problems on someone else...If they could ever come to face the fact that they were wrong by not dealing with the problem then they would be in the first step of Admitting they were wrong..Which alot of people will find that by letting drugs and alcohol damper the problem will only create it more..Take a puddle of water as life...and in this puddle of life its your job to keep the ripples from coming (ripples=problems) One day a ripple forms..its your job to stop the ripple Well the smart thing would do is let the ripple work its way to the end and nine times out of ten the ripple will end....But what most of us do is we beat the ripples trying to make them stop and what do we do??? We create more ripples...No life isnt a puddle nor close to it butt our problems can be solve just like they were just ripples in our lives....More addition later a tired mind cant think =)

[Tee Ehn]

damn bammma sike 101 i think i need to go lay down LOL.... [img]confused.gif[/img]

[~*Mz.Chievous*~]

I agree with all that
you have a good opinion .....we all have to lear how to listen and bend and let pride go....
the hard part is that you have to put it into practice...

[SoulAngel]

In a partnership should there really be a wrong and right? or should these two things
equal UNDERSTANDING....? We are all taught wrong from right we should all Know understanding....
For understanding makes the tomorrows right*S* [img]redface.gif[/img]

[Zipfile.exe]

Where do you learn right from wrong...Where do we learn right from wrong...How do we learn right from wrong??